If you have been following the news over the past few months, you know that the country of Mexico is in a real fix now with drug wars. I mention this because we are so far away in Iowa that when we hear or read about it, we pass it off with a “it's none of our business” or “too bad for them” type of attitude. Please bear with me as I relate a story to you.
Lori K. Gonzalez taught 6th grade math in McAllen, Texas, for 24 years. By all accounts, she was a good teacher, a caring teacher, loved and respected by many. On Wednesday, March 24th, she and her family, husband Jose and daughter Adriana, were out paying bills. She decided to stop for a soda as she had developed a head ache. She asked Jose to drive when she came back to the van. It wasn't three blocks and 5 minutes later she lay dead at the scene of a horrific auto accident. Her husband had a broken hip and their daughter had a cracked pelvis and lacerations to her spleen and liver.
This accident happened because there was a high speed chase between rival drug cartel members. In a scene reminiscent of a wild west movie, shots were being fired between their pick-up trucks. The lead truck blew through a red light and smacked right into the side of the Gonzalez van, the passenger side. Poor Lori did not have a chance. It was a tragedy of the largest magnitude. A husband lies in the hospital with a broken hip and a 15 year sophomore is now missing her best friend. Could this have all been averted? Who knows.
What the McAllen School District and the City of McAllen did then was amazing. A collection was gathered from teachers and staff, totaling $1000 for family expenses, the city held a reception for community members following a memorial service and at the reception, more money was gathered for Adriana and Jose. They treated Lori Gonzalez as a local hero because she was, she was a teacher.
As you can probably tell, I know Lori Gonzalez. I knew her quite well. She was my wife Victoria's sister. A girl from the small town of Bode, Iowa, a Wartburg College graduate, a terrific mother and friend. I've done an awful lot of reflecting since Wednesday. Reflecting on how that family is going to continue to get up in the morning and go about their business. When something like this happens and it's a long way from home, tragedy can be downplayed. The way the school and their administrators, teachers and staff opened up to my wife and her other sister, Tami, was truly amazing.
You know, sometimes teachers are held in very high regard and yet it's an easy profession for some to criticize, particularly if you or your child struggled in school. All teachers should be hailed as heroes, not only after they're gone, but at all times. We shape lives, we teach kids to think, to create, to communicate, to collaborate, to become productive citizens. How I pray that there were no illegal drug use and that these drug wars would end. Unfortunately, they won't and there will be other tragedies to deal with in the future. I hope and pray that something like this never happens again.
Above is a picture of Adriana as she recovers in the hospital in McAllen. She's a beautiful young lady who now has some unusual challenges ahead for her in this life. God Bless you Lori!